{"id":84,"date":"2017-04-12T20:00:35","date_gmt":"2017-04-12T20:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/finding-home\/?post_type=project&#038;p=84"},"modified":"2023-01-16T14:08:49","modified_gmt":"2023-01-16T14:08:49","slug":"maryam","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/finding-home\/project\/maryam\/","title":{"rendered":"Maryam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_css_main_element=&#8221;height: 100vh;&#8221; transparent_background=&#8221;off&#8221; make_fullwidth=&#8221;off&#8221; use_custom_width=&#8221;off&#8221; width_unit=&#8221;on&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_fullwidth_header title=&#8221;Maryam&#8221; header_fullscreen=&#8221;on&#8221; content_orientation=&#8221;bottom&#8221; content_max_width=&#8221;none&#8221; title_font_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;Fullwidth Header&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; title_font=&#8221;Lato|on|||&#8221; title_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; title_font_size=&#8221;80px&#8221; background_color=&#8221;rgba(255, 255, 255, 0)&#8221; background_image=&#8221;http:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/finding-home\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Maryam-feature-image-option-2.jpg&#8221; parallax=&#8221;on&#8221; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; button_two_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; background_url=&#8221;http:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/finding-home\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Maryam-feature-image-option-2.jpg&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=&#8221;on&#8221; button_one_letter_spacing__hover=&#8221;0&#8243; button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=&#8221;on&#8221; button_two_letter_spacing__hover=&#8221;0&#8243; button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221; button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=&#8221;off&#8221;][\/et_pb_fullwidth_header][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;Section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; column_structure=&#8221;1_4,1_2,1_4&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Lato||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]Maryam, 17, stationed herself in front of her house every day just after dawn. There was always a bowl in front of her, filled with little wraps of <em>Alale,<\/em> pudding made out of beans. She would sit there until she sold the last wrap.<\/p>\n<p>By the end of the day, she would have almost 500 naira, about $2 CAD, clenched in her fist. She had to sell 50 wraps to make that much money. And on most days she succeeded, sometimes even as early as mid-afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>One sunny day, she had just set up when she heard loud sounds.<\/p>\n<p>Prrah! Prrah! Prrah!<\/p>\n<p>Gunshots.<\/p>\n<p>She had heard these before, when soldiers came to her village. And then she heard something else.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAllahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar! Allahu Akbar!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Familiar words. She said them when she lifted her hands in prayer. But the men who shouted these words did not have the calm of prayer in their voices.<\/p>\n<p>From where she sat, she could see as her village secretariat, not far away, was swallowed up in flames. She did not wait to watch it burn to the ground. She ran into her house.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEverybody was scared,\u201d she said to me in the Hausa language.<\/p>\n<p>That was the day she heard about Boko Haram.<\/p>\n<p>That morning\u2019s incident added her village in Madagali, in northeastern Nigeria, to the list of places where Boko Haram has unleashed terror.<\/p>\n<p>Later that evening, Maryam told her mother she wanted to go to Mubi, a northeastern town she considered safe. It was 100 kilometres away. Her uncle lived there.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam\u2019s mother gave her some travel money and she set out to Mubi the next day, with her younger sister.<\/p>\n<p>Mubi was as safe as she imagined, but she missed home. She heard that her village had been peaceful since she left. So two weeks later, Maryam and her sister packed their bags again and returned home.<\/p>\n<p>But Boko Haram was still close by.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen they took Gwoza, we were not scared,\u201d Maryam said about Boko Haram\u2019s bloody raid in a town just 24 kilometres away from hers.<\/p>\n<p>She remained in Madagali with her family, optimistic that the terrorists would not strike. But Boko Haram returned, and came knocking on her family\u2019s door.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_code admin_label=&#8221;Code&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xZctueqFzl8?rel=0&#038;controls=0&#038;showinfo=0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe>[\/et_pb_code][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; column_structure=&#8221;1_4,1_2,1_4&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Lato||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]Maryam does not know the exact date she was forced to become the bride of a Boko Haram member.<\/p>\n<p>She uses Ramadan, the Islamic month of fasting, as an event marker. By her estimate, these events might have happened two Ramadans before I spoke with her in summer 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam was moved around. She was taken to a Boko Haram base in Gulak, which was about 20 kilometres from her hometown. Boko Haram fighters left there regularly to raid nearby villages and towns, destroying property and killing. They always returned in larger numbers than they left \u2013 with even more women.<\/p>\n<p>Before long, she was relocated again to the Sambisa forest, which served as Boko Haram\u2019s hideout for much of its eight-year insurgency.<\/p>\n<p>In Sambisa, she met some of the 219 young women from Chibok whose abduction from their school in 2014, captured the world\u2019s attention. She still remembers their names.<\/p>\n<p>Halima.<\/p>\n<p>Falmata.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam.<\/p>\n<p>But whatever friendship she created with them was short-lived. The young women from Chibok were whisked away to another location.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam\u2019s Boko Haram marriage made her homesick. Her husband hit her once, and disrespected her all the time.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI did not like my husband,\u201d she said. \u201cThere was a lot of stress and there was embarrassment and my parents were not there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted to see my parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her chance at freedom came when a faction of the camp decided it would move to another part of the Sambisa forest. Her so-called husband was part of that group. But she refused to leave with him. She wanted to return to her parents. Maryam said he didn\u2019t force her. He left without her.<\/p>\n<p>Being on her own came with different struggles. She ended up in a makeshift shelter in the forest for unmarried women. Raindrops trickled from the roof into her room when there was a heavy downpour. She had to find her own food and water. On many days, she got these only if she begged.<\/p>\n<p>Every struggle made her even more homesick.<\/p>\n<p>She had a distant male relative in the Sambisa forest, too. She told him about how badly she missed her parents. He helped her plan an escape.<\/p>\n<p>When Maryam fled Boko Haram, three other women came with her. They were caught two days later.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_code admin_label=&#8221;Code&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bgTbxdoajDo?rel=0&#038;controls=0&#038;showinfo=0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe>[\/et_pb_code][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; column_structure=&#8221;1_4,1_2,1_4&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Lato||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]Maryam and the other women were sent back to the Sambisa forest with a guard to ensure they didn\u2019t try to escape. But halfway through their forced return, he disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>They spent days wandering through the forest before they finally found a farm. They were in Limankara, less than 20 kilometres away from Maryam&#8217;s hometown.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBlessings that you are out of their (Boko Haram\u2019s) hands,\u201d the women they met at the farm said to them, on learning about their escape.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/finding-home\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2017\/04\/Maryam-skirt.jpg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Image&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; animation=&#8221;off&#8221; sticky=&#8221;off&#8221; always_center_on_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Lato||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><strong>Maryam walked for days, wandering the forest before she arrived at a farm in Limankara, a town in northeastern Nigeria.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;Row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; column_structure=&#8221;1_4,1_2,1_4&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Lato||||&#8221; text_text_color=&#8221;#000000&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;18&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; border_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]The women at the farm took them to members of the Civilian Joint Task Force \u2013 a paramilitary group in northeastern Nigeria&#8217;s Borno state that works with government soldiers in the fight against Boko Haram. As people who understand their local terrain, they give information to soldiers and help them infiltrate communities suspected to shelter Boko Haram. Sometimes they follow soldiers on raids to Boko Haram camps. They are also usually the first contacts when people suspected of escaping Boko Haram are found wandering in the bush.<\/p>\n<p>Members of the group searched Maryam and the other women before handing them over to the soldiers, who gave them food and water.<\/p>\n<p>After that, she told me, came the questions. About where they were coming from. How they escaped. The Boko Haram members they knew. The young women from Chibok. Why Maryam and the other women did not escape with them. And where the young women could be found.<\/p>\n<p>It was evening by the time they finished answering all these questions. They were given a space to sleep. Maryam said the soldiers told her they would take her to her parents in Madagali, the next day.<\/p>\n<p>But it didn\u2019t happen. They kept her at their base for a week before transferring her to a government-run camp for displaced people in Mubi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The camp in Mubi<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The camp entrance has a prominent sign that rests on brick pillars. The words, \u201cWelcome to Mubi Burnt Brick Industries Ltd\u201d are displayed on it. Some Nigerian soldiers are stationed at this entrance. They decide who gets to enter and who is turned back.<\/p>\n<p>On the day I visit, there are signs of help from around the world. The logos of non-governmental organizations are appended to tents and other relief materials. Oxfam. The International Committee of the Red Cross. UN agencies.<\/p>\n<p>There is a heavy military presence, too. Uniformed men are everywhere; having conversations amongst themselves, joking with two men of the Nigerian Red Cross, and milling around the many displaced people going about their daily lives.<\/p>\n<p>I enter one of the large buildings at the camp and I see that displaced people had carved out sleeping spaces between the heavy machinery that were once used to shape and build bricks.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam is living here with more than 300 other people at the time I meet her. Some, like her, have just escaped from Boko Haram. Others were only steps ahead. They left before the terrorists struck.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam tells me she\u2019s been here for one week and one day. The Nigerian Red Cross won\u2019t let her go yet, not until she gets counselling. That\u2019s the case in this camp for all women who have escaped Boko Haram.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you see the first captives that were retrieved to this place, you will cry, because they came out very tattered,\u201d says Manchia E. 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Maryam tells me she still thinks about what she endured. When I ask her what it was like, she says there was a lot of <em>wahala. <\/em>It\u2019s a Nigerian word used to describe every level of stress, from not sleeping well to the nightmare of being kidnapped and held captive.<\/p>\n<p>Maryam tells me when she thinks about the <em>wahala <\/em>she went through, it sends a shiver through her body. But that\u2019s all. In this place, she sleeps well, she eats well. 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