{"id":189,"date":"2019-03-31T02:36:55","date_gmt":"2019-03-31T02:36:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/strainedrelations\/?page_id=189"},"modified":"2019-05-21T01:23:44","modified_gmt":"2019-05-21T01:23:44","slug":"barriers-hindering-integration","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/strainedrelations\/barriers-hindering-integration\/","title":{"rendered":"Barriers hindering integration"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;off|desktop&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Header&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#2a2e40&#8243; use_background_color_gradient=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color_gradient_start=&#8221;rgba(42,46,64,0.34)&#8221; background_color_gradient_end=&#8221;#2a2e40&#8243; background_color_gradient_type=&#8221;radial&#8221; background_color_gradient_direction_radial=&#8221;top right&#8221; background_color_gradient_end_position=&#8221;90%&#8221; 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For many refugees, it is the moment they realize they are on their own.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;||-2px|||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0|0px|46.3125px|0px|false|false&#8221;][et_pb_row custom_padding=&#8221;90px||&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;Oswald||||||||&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Oswald||||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; header_3_font_size=&#8221;25px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;1.9em&#8221; border_color_all=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; border_width_top=&#8221;5px&#8221; border_style_top=&#8221;dashed&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-28px|||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;23px|||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Identity crisis<\/h3>\n<p>Joo Kyungbae defected from North Korea in 2011.<\/p>\n<p>Kyungbae says it\u2019s important to help North Koreans understand their unique identity in South Korea. Kyungbae believes identity is connected to a positive integration into South Korea.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNorth Koreans have South Korean citizenship, but they have an identity crisis. They don&#8217;t know where their hometown is \u2013 they&#8217;re not defectors from North Korea anymore, but they don&#8217;t feel like South Koreans,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p>Kyungbae\u2019s daughter struggled with her identity in South Korea.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe almost committed suicide and she went through depression,\u201d says Kyungbae. His son also experienced a similar depression. Kyungbae could understand his children\u2019s struggle. He defected to South Korea by himself and also struggled with his mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Kyungbae felt life in South Korea without his family was meaningless. Although he was a respected solider in North Korea, he worked as a bus boy in a restaurant, because that was the only job he could find. He needed to save enough money and bring his family to South Korea.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI never wanted to kill myself in North Korea, but in South Korea I wanted to die,\u201d Kyungbae says.<\/p>\n<p>It was difficult for him to save money in South Korea.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>The South Korean government invests millions of dollars each year in resettlement programs, subsidies and grants designed especially for North Koreans, but refugees are still struggling to integrate into the South. Settlement workers believe that strong social relationships are linked to steady career paths, socioeconomic status and mental well-being.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNorth Korean refugees don&#8217;t have close friends from South Korea,\u201d says Jihyun Roh who is the Resettlement Community Manager for the NGO Liberty in North Korea. \u201cIt\u2019s hard for them to rely on anyone. They may have health issues, struggle with mental health or miss their family. This makes it hard for them to make friends with South Koreans.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_2_font=&#8221;Oswald|300||on|||||&#8221; header_2_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; header_2_font_size=&#8221;60px&#8221; header_2_line_height=&#8221;1.7em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Oswald||||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; header_3_font_size=&#8221;25px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; border_width_top=&#8221;5px&#8221; border_color_top=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; border_style_top=&#8221;dashed&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;58px|||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;26px|||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Factors<\/h3>\n<p>Factors hindering North Korean refugees from forming social relationships range from language barriers to experiencing discrimination, because of being North Korean.\u00a0Government funded resettlement programs do not emphasize building relationships between North and South Koreans. Hanawon curriculum is focused on North Koreans assimilating into South Korean culture, and there is no such equivalent opportunity for South Koreans to learn about North Korea. One-sided assimilation fuels stress for refugees who feel they must speak with a perfect South Korean accent before engaging with South Koreans.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Park Jiwon &#8221; portrait_url=&#8221;https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/strainedrelations\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2019\/03\/Jiwon-jpeg-e1555793126582.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>Although we are the same people and same country there are many differences between us, so it was really stressful. I thought that I was very stupid or not smart. I wanted to hide. I didn&#8217;t want to come out of the house.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_testimonial][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Choi Eunbee&#8221; portrait_url=&#8221;https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/strainedrelations\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2019\/03\/Screen-Shot-2019-03-30-at-7.59.53-PM.png&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t want to make a mistake or fail. I was very stressed and worried. This stress came from a desire to build relationships with others. 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It immediately identifies them as non-South Korean and can be a source of embarrassment.\u201cSouth Korean people tend to talk very indirectly. Sometimes the way North Korean people talk can sound intense and can cause some misunderstandings,\u201d says Roh.<\/p>\n<p>Beyond accent, seven decades of separation has left the two Koreas with an entirely different bank of vocabulary. Because of North Korea\u2019s ban on western media, the North Korean dialect is devoid of English words.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Although it\u2019s the same Korean \u2013 they are not familiar with a lot of loan words from English like upgrade, ATM and handi-phone,\u201d says Roh. \u201cEnglish gives them a lot of headaches. People who want to pursue their education need a good English score,\u201d says Roh.<\/p>\n<p>Marius Grinius travelled to North Korea several times as the Canadian Ambassador to North and South Korea.\u201cMy interpreter brought a North South Korean dictionary with her. 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Faculty outings in Korea are scheduled each month and usually\u00a0involve dinner and drinking. [Photo \u00a9 Ash Abraham]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row custom_padding=&#8221;92px|||||&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; header_3_font=&#8221;Oswald||||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; header_3_font_size=&#8221;25px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; border_width_top=&#8221;5px&#8221; border_color_top=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; border_style_top=&#8221;dashed&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;23px|||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Pace of life in South Korea<\/h3>\n<p>For North Koreans who do stay on the university route, the journey doesn\u2019t end with graduation. After university they will enter one of the most competitive markets in the world. The fierce competition to work in companies like Samsung, LG and Hyundai, breeds a culture of chronic business that North Korean refugees claim is difficult to navigate.<\/p>\n<p>Maintaining employment is not only important for refugees financially, but also for their social integration into South Korea. Workplace friends are common in South Korea with monthly <em>hweshick<\/em> (work dinner parties) bonding coworkers together over drinks and <em>noraebang<\/em> (singing rooms). Older North Korean refugees who do not go back to school are relegated to service and janitorial jobs, subsequently creating a low-economic class of North Koreans.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUsually middle-aged North Korea women take job training classes to be a caretaker or a nursing assistant. They also work as cleaners in hotels,\u201d says Roh. \u201cThere\u2019s lot of support from the government, but it&#8217;s hard for older North Koreans who are not familiar with online research to piece it all together. And if they aren&#8217;t well connected with their Hana Center or social worker then they might miss out on new benefits.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_fullwidth_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/cusjc.ca\/mrp\/strainedrelations\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/16\/2019\/04\/SAM_2003.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.21&#8243;][\/et_pb_fullwidth_image][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0|0px|0|0px|false|false&#8221;][et_pb_row custom_padding=&#8221;0px|6px|0|0px|false|false&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243; width=&#8221;79.2%&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; width=&#8221;99.9%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|-303px||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;|0px||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><em> Busan, South Korea. Most North Korean defectors have never used a subway or lived in a big city. The fast-pace of South Korean cities like Seoul and Busan can be overwhelming for North Koreans when they first move to the South. [Photo \u00a9 Ash Abraham]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_5&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>For South Koreans, attending university is not only viewed an investment in one\u2019s future, it is viewed as the ultimate marker of success. Graduating from a \u201cSKY\u201d university, an acronym for Seoul National University, Korea University and Yonsei University, can determine a student\u2019s career path and even their marriage prospects.<\/p>\n<p>South Koreans put an extraordinary amount of pressure on themselves to succeed in school so that they can compete for entrance to a prestigious university. English is a component of university and college admission examinations, and poses an additional burden for most North Korean refugees who have limited English language training. South Korean children grow up learning English in school and in after school academies.<\/p>\n<p>Parents are so keen on teaching their children English that often mothers will move with their children to English speaking countries while the father stays in South Korea. This is so common, there is a term for the father of these families: <em>giroegi appa<\/em> (goose dad), because the father must fly or migrate to see his family. North Koreans learn a basic level of English in high school, and Pyongyang elites may attend universities like Kim Il-Sung University where English is taught. But it is uncommon for North Koreans to come with South Korea having known a great deal of English.<\/p>\n<p>Attending university in South Korea is difficult without a high mark on the university entrance exam. 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He drew comfort from a verse from the Gospel of Matthew: <em>Seek first the kingdom&#8230;and everything will be added upon you. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat helped me grow out of my pain and I felt reborn,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p>With renewed focus, Kyungbae saved enough money to fund his family\u2019s escape from North Korea.<\/p>\n<p>Now, he works as North Korean activist. He organizes events to send contraband to North Korea, and to inspire more people to defect and fully participate in South Korean life.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.5&#8243; text_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;15px&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; header_font_size=&#8221;25px&#8221; header_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; header_3_font=&#8221;Oswald||||||||&#8221; header_3_text_color=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; header_3_font_size=&#8221;25px&#8221; header_3_line_height=&#8221;2em&#8221; border_width_top=&#8221;5px&#8221; border_color_top=&#8221;#e02b20&#8243; border_style_top=&#8221;dashed&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1080px&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;24px|0px||||&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Pre-conceived notions<\/h3>\n<p>Eunice Jeong grew up in South Korea.\u201cWhen I was young, we called North Koreans <em>Reds.<\/em> Communists. They were bad,\u201d she says. She had never met a person from North Korea until she was nearly 40 years old. Her perceptions of North Korea changed significantly after she became friends with North Korean women.<\/p>\n<p>Not all South Koreans share Jeong\u2019s warm feelings towards North Koreans. Dong-Joong Jo is a researcher at Seoul National University\u2019s Institute for Peace and Reunification Studies. He organizes an annual Unification Perceptions Survey. The 2018 survey found that South Korean\u2019s perceptions of North Koreans has deteriorated significantly since 2014.\u201cSouth Koreans tend to view North Koreans in terms of competition,\u201d says Jo. \u201cThe percentage of South Koreans that want to provide more assistance to North Korean defectors has decreased.\u201d The survey also found a decrease in South Koreans who want to accept more refugees from North Korea.\u201cIn South Korea there\u2019s an extraordinary social and even family pressures to succeed,&#8221; says Tim Peters, founder of Helping Hands, an organization that rescues North Korean defectors from China. \u201cI think the average young Korean sees North Korean defectors in terms of higher taxes and more competition for jobs. North Koreans get free education and they don&#8217;t. And so this breeds discontentment, resentment and a sense of insensitivity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Peters has lived in South Korea on and off since the 1970s. He remembers a time when South Korean political rhetoric was predominately anti-North Korea, and thinks these sentiments are ingrained in the psyche of some South Koreans today.\u201cFrom the 70s up to the election of Kim Dae Yoon, North Korea was demonized for political reasons,\u201d says Peters. \u201cThe public consumption of anti-North Korean rhetoric was a regular drumbeat. There was a kind of knee jerk anti-North Korean political distrust to the extreme of having some people say we shouldn\u2019t send food, because the kids will grow up and carry rifles and attack us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>How South Koreans perceive North Korea can have a direct effect on refugees\u2019 overall integration. A study published by The Social Science and Medicine Journal found a correlation between social adaptation, depression and perceived discrimination. The report surveyed 261 North Korean refugees and found an increase in depressive symptoms among refugees who felt discriminated against by South Koreans. The report states: \u201cThe perception of how a refugee is treated by members of the host society plays an important role in the individual&#8217;s process of adaptation, which has implications for mental health.<\/p>\n<p>The Hana Center 2017 Settlement Survey of North Koreans Living in South Korea found 75 per cent of North Koreans cited &#8220;different communication and culture for North Korean refugees\u201d as a reason for experiencing discrimination from South Koreans. Forty-one per cent cited: \u201cNegative perceptions toward North Korean refugees,\u201d and 25 per cent answered: a \u201cLack of professional knowledge and skills compared to South Korean.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>North Korean refugees arrive to South Korea with an alarming rate of post-traumatic stress disorder and depression. Discrimination exacerbates the mental health issues that North Korean refugees have already likely developed in transit countries like China due to trafficking, fear of repatriation and lack of identification papers.<\/p>\n<p>In a study which is the first of its kind, psychologists from South Korea found that suicidal thoughts are higher among North Korean refugees than the general South Korean population. A study on Agoraphobia, the fear of leaving one\u2019s house, is most strongly associated with suicidal ideation in North Koreans.\u201cPsychological challenges are the biggest,\u201d says Roh. \u201cSome feel guilty about leaving their family and they can&#8217;t sleep. They try to save money and send it back to their family in North Korea. 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